This morning I asked H if he wanted to go back to the therapist individually or as a couple. He said he would do either. If I wanted him to be there, he would be.
He said, however: "if we are going to go through this, we have to follow their advice. You have yet to follow any advice that was given"
He is referring to the fact that both counselors we went to had asked me to stop talking about R.
He says it just pushes him away, but I don't see how we can get anything resolved without talking about it. Can anyone enlighten me?
Then he said, "following their advice is very very hard" I think the therapist asked him to cut contact with OW or refrain from doing anything legal until I have the baby. I'm not sure.
