Learning to detach

[Whiterose]

Question for you guys.S14 and I were eating dinner and I asked if he'd talked to his dad recently. "No, not really". I asked why and he said didn't really want to. I asked if he wanted to tell me why or talk about it. He said not really and I didn't push.

I had noticed that H messaged him a couple of days in a row, no response, and called his cell this AM but he had left it home. (Called him at 8:35.....ummm, he's at school at that time!!).

S14 met with a school counsellor Tuesday (he came home and said she wanted him to tell me something he had told her..,.,I love you and know that if I'm with you I'm going to be ok.....made me cry)

Anyway, question, if H messages me to ask about S14 not responding do I say he's upset right now or do I say I don't know???

I did mention to S-14 that H plans on taking them Thanksgiving Monday for dinner with his side (my family celebrates on the Sunday and he was more concerned about what day we would be doing it) but that if he does or does not want to go both are fine. He said ok.