Just to be clear, I think some people are okay with a sexless marriage, they are not tortured by it. If they are okay with it and find peace, then I have no issue with the dynamic at all. I only get fired up when one partner is deeply dissatisfied with their sex life and the other partner chooses to say "too bad". That seems to be your sitch, and I don't understand how you can find that maintainable.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
