"I've never been the guy who could just put an ultimatum out there with regard to ending my marriage. Once I commit and take those vows, I'm there. I don't believe in divorce nor accept it as an option, so this is why I'm so tenative."
^^^DD what are you trying to say here? If you confront your W and she says she would like to see if her R with OM works out you would just accept that and remain in the M?
Yes I'm also curious of your definition of M.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
