We had a group of four couples. I became extremely close to one of the women, K. Her H is extremely possessive and jealous, he destroyed our friendship. As things were going downhill he was essentially whispering things in my H's ear. Fanning the flames. Now my H mentions things here and there, I know where the comments came from and who said them. All of this because A wants his W under lock and key, but at the same time wants to keep his BF. It's schoolyard BS.
I can't fight that, so I choose to say nothing or non committal oh yeahs.
H is taking our D out tonight. If I can work it into the conversation over coffee when they get back, I am going to ask for help. A purpose event where our M is not in the spotlight, maybe we can just focus on sow thing else with no stress on us.
