I like your counterarguments. I still don't think it's possible to be "in love" with two people at the same time. You love your kids, you're not "in love" with them. I'm defining "In Love" as "limerence".
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015