This is a slippery slope Dingo. To me, it doesn't sound like your W is ready to commit to working on it, but you'll know that by approaching this as "we're a team...what do we think is best for our M?" If she thinks she can still see OM, she's not ready. If she doesn't want to be transparent, she's not ready.
Be patient with her, but don't underestimate the power of an affair and don't negotiate on your boundaries and what you are willing to live with.
Originally Posted By: Breakdown
What are you working on? What are you doing to become the man only a fool would leave?
