Any advice on handling children who want their family back together? W is accusing me of building an army to manipulate her into coming back. How can I assure that I'm not doing this - even unconsciously? One D in particular is really frustrated w/W's decisions. W said she could set them straight so they understood her decisions but doesn't want to put their father (me) in bad light. W is frustrated that I want the family back together. I'm sticking to my principles (OK with working on M or D), but it's certainly not making her a happy camper. The kids sense that I don't want this... What can I do? For one, I can stop saying anything positive about W and treat her as a friendly acquaintance. Is this the way to go?
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