Everyone here with kids should read "The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: A 25 Year Landmark Study" by Judith Wallerstein. I think MWD may mention this study in one of her books.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)