Thoughts are with you T! You have come so far with controlling your emotions. Proud of you man. You may not know it yet and you won't feel it yet, but the respect you have for yourself for the rest of your line because of the way you are handling this will priceless. I don't know how I would be feeling with thing being over. I was at that point you are, were I was goo with whatever happened, 5 months ago. Now we are moving readily ahead and putting the past behind us. The reason I think you are doing the right thing by being "done for now" Is because I have witnessed it firsthand. My W had finally decided she wanted To change and has put work in with MC and individually. Because SHE wanted to. If your W ever wants to then she can, until then I think you have to love forward. All the best, hang in there T
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
