WOW, what is happening here has made me realize something.
As a LBS I WISH my W was as invested in D3.5 as you are with your with your S's.....Then again, if she was, we would have a rallying point for R. People who are married and both share our mindset dont end up here.
As I get absorbed by these sitch's, these stories, I NOW realize that most of the time there is one "better"(more nurturing)parent that "Gets it".
but too many times the words you and I speak. "Wanting the children to have stability" " Same bed" "a home" "consistency" "Best for our children" etc..........are used by horribly wretched people as buzz words to attack and seek revenge on their WAW.
I know that is not you, I have the luxury of knowing you. Unfortunately, those words are like daggers through the heart of so many here as ugly custody battles may draw near.
Being selfish for your kids is awesome. Being an educator im sure you see waaay to many parents that aren't.
What are you doing up at 12:08 on a school night?????
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
