Yes, that is right, the money doesn't replace anything. But maybe it will him to see I am the only one who is there for him and that's how its always been.

Why not call his sister who has helped him w/ advice to leave the marriage? Because she hasn't given him anything ever and won't ever have anything to give but her crap advice. He has no one but me.

Ive been thinking about taking my name off of the accounts, and have my check deposoted into my own accou t to show him I'm done and moving on as he wishes. Then he has no right to ask for anything. But we'll see. I will give it 2 more weeks.

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope