Maybe check out some of the MLC advice, it seems to apply to WAS too. At least it did to me.

It explains some of the crazy behavior going on. If not, at least it is very entertaining to read!

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1539436#Post1539436
Pud

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.