Hi jon.....Well I posted asked for advice on how to handle it bc I knew it was coming, so I could prepare but no one responded lol....so... yeah I didn't know how to handle it *shrugs*
This whole DB process has me kind of being a bit of a push over i guess...he says and does what he wants, I smile and say I'm perfectly fine, then go out and GAL as if everything is oooook. Because hey, I'm detached and his actions affect me none!
My giving him money....I guess is a 180. We had seperate accounts for years and he always felt uneasy about having to ask me for money. And usually I'd be annoyed when he'd ask bc just as he is now, he ildlnt manage his money well. So I showed him something different and pleasantly gave. There was only $35 in the checking to last him until next Thursday... Money is the only connection we still have through the joint accounts, since we live in different states I guess this is the only way to show my change. Am I a sucker for helping?
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
