In you boys case the concern would be that if they want their mom and dad back like " before" could they mind read or look for signs?
Your absolutely right, at your sons age they may only be focused on playing ball and maybe girls???
I was always the overly sensitive son that's why I tend to be the " worry wort"
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
