Originally Posted By: TryingToDo180
I've not got a seaside near me either, living in the midlands, lol. Our nearest seaside town is Wales!

We do have a few beaches – surprising there’s a couple of good ones in the major city near here. There’s also a few north of us, a good couple of hours highway driving though. And they’re all freshwater – if you can call the water in any of the Great Lakes “fresh”. My aunt and uncle used to own a caravan in northern Wales and my cousin went to college in Cardiff, and apparently I was “made in Wales” as that’s where my parents lived when they first married and they were expecting me when Dad was transferred to another base. I loved the few trips I made to Wales smile .

Originally Posted By: TryingToDo180
I have this problem at college every weds. One of the girls in our class seems to think that having my son waiting for me is a major issue. It always leads to what a bad father H is and how I'm better off without him. It really puts me in a bad mood and we don't finish until 8pm on weds so I'm irritable for the rest of the night. I hate it when people say you're better off without him and you're too good for him.

More DBing practice? I had a few co-workers try telling me that I would be better off without my H, and saying that they couldn’t understand why I hadn’t just turfed him out and been done with it. It does get frustrating doesn’t it.

Originally Posted By: TryingToDo180
I feel better now since I've got home though smile I got a free small bottle of belgian chocolate baileys through the post, which is absolutely scrummy smile I'm off college now until Monday and as always I've got a busy few days lined up. I don't think I'll get a chance to do some decluttering any time soon, lol.

I don't think we've set a deadline for completing our decluttering, have we? wink


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks