JS,

One of my former BB buds (now a friend in real life) suggested I read Journey from Abandonment to Healing. It was a massive source of enlightenment to me, and kind of knocked me on my butt for awhile. You might be ready for the introspection as well.

Warning, keep Kleenex close by. I remember a lot of tears as I read....

For what it's worth, I spent a lot of time in IC dealing with this issue. It didn't truly get resolved until I finished the book and did some exercises and souls searching. I'm now at the point where I can abandon people and situations that aren't good for me, because I'm no longer afraid.

Good luck!

Betsey


"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein