My XH also likes being helpful. But there are times that I guess he doesn't feel like being that guy and occasionally lashes out at me and tells me to hire a handyman. LOL. So tread carefully?
I dunno. That's kind of a big job. Is there a chance he can use the resentment against you? I might want to stick to offering a fun and safe place for him to be with you that doesn't look like work. Ya know? Light, breezy and easy?
Ok, so I lied. Apparently I did offer advice. But this is a case where you have to be the judge. It could go either way.
Are you saying that friends are encouraging the split? Tell us more... And who exactly.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
