Hi Ch10, thanks for stopping by. There's not much new. H sent me a few photos of dogs last week that he came across while out and about, I guess it made him miss our dog who is with me. I responded nicely not times, but didn't try to start a conversation.
He called me briefly to tell me why he took money out of our account, then told me he'd call me after work w/ some more updates.
He did call again later, but I was working and couldn't answer. I called him back and he didn't answer haven't heard from him since.
I posted a pic on Facebook that had nothing to do with him, it said "Immaturity doesn't listen to wisdom, Immaturity would rather learn from experience" then I wrote a caption to go along w/ it about how we'd save ourselves a lot of heartache and struggle if we'd just listen to those who have been through certain things, even though it isn't what we want to hear, they are trying to help us w/ the advice not hurt us.
I posted that b/c this is something I've learn about myself. I always push advice to the side and what to "learn for my self". I could've saved my self a lot of trouble had I listened.
The next day I noticed H's sister posted a photo that said "Accept what is, let go of what was and have faith in what will be". I kind of felt it was directed at me. I know, I am assuming, but today I looked online at the phone records and his sister did call him that day after I posted it and they talked for some time.
So I am going to assume they think it was about him *eyeroll*
Sorry for the rant, but yeah, no updates on my sitch really. No communication b/c us really...so who know what's going on in his head.
Last weekend I went out w/ a friend to breakfast and went to church. Drove around the city and took some pics of landmarks and things I found interesting. I newly joined instagram and it's helping rekindle my love of taking pictures.
I'm working usually 6 days a week to make enough to pay my rent and still save a good amount.
I'm ok.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope