I've not got a seaside near me either, living in the midlands, lol. Our nearest seaside town is Wales! Funnily enough, I also printed out the midlife for dummies and read it on the bus on the way to college. It talks about 2 things that scream H to me The first one was not keeping the house clean and the 2nd one was ironing him pants (or T-shirts in my H's case). I have this problem at college every weds. One of the girls in our class seems to think that having my son waiting for me is a major issue. It always leads to what a bad father H is and how I'm better off without him. It really puts me in a bad mood and we don't finish until 8pm on weds so I'm irritable for the rest of the night. I hate it when people say you're better off without him and you're too good for him. The last straw was she called him a pervert today, which I can't understand why. I'm not as loud as her so I can't really answer her back apart from agree with her and when I do answer people like that it always puts me in a bad light with the other person. I feel better now since I've got home though I got a free small bottle of belgian chocolate baileys through the post, which is absolutely scrummy I'm off college now until Monday and as always I've got a busy few days lined up. I don't think I'll get a chance to do some decluttering any time soon, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
The first one was not keeping the house clean and the 2nd one was ironing him pants (or T-shirts in my H's case).