KarenR, I do not have the funds for a coach at this time. Have been reading this forum for almost a month. Would love to do that, but not feasible right now.
Starsky, I told him in order for this marriage to go any further he has to go NC with OW in front of me and start MC and IC. I am starting my own IC for me. And asfaras the weekend thing goes, part of me really wants to go, thinking it is a reach from him to "talk", but I totally am in self preseverance mode and do not want to have any expectations. My inital thought was not to go. He calls continuously and I do not accept half the calls. I told him it needs to be kept strictly business or child related. Recently set down some boundaries with him about just showing up at the house, and a parenting schedule, work schedule. Thanks again for the responses.
Me-49, H-45 M - 4, Together 9 SS-9 Bomb Dropped - 9/12 Separation - 10/12 Reconcile -2/13 Separation - 8/2013 Reconcile - 10/2013 Separation - 12/2013 Reconcile - 2/14 Separate - 5/14 H Filed D - 8/14
