Self help books and this forum seem geared for the LBS. I see comments about the WAS needing to make their journey. Why does it seem like there are no books to explain this behavior? Why doesn't counseling have some proven therapy for helping people with this condition? Why is selfishness justified? Everything treats it as some sort of unexplainable period of time in ones life that may have been brought about by problems in their marriage, in their life, or both. I can imagine so many reasons why someone would want out of their marriage. When none of those reasons apply, how is it that people still leave? I do not believe if our roles were reversed that my wife would make the same effort to learn, improve, and understand. I feel disposable.
