I have been dark for about two weeks now. W just filed for Divorce a week ago and my emotions are pretty raw.
Situation: D14 plays in competitive soccer games on weekends. Before going dark, Wife and I typically attended all games together. Should I continue to go to all games and sit apart from her?
Should I talk with her if she approaches me at games? Should I allow her to sit with me? How should I act? Warm and sociable - or simply not available? Am I trying to make her feel isolated or what?
To use the actor's phrase, what is my motivation in this scene?
Me:52 Wife:49 Married 19 years Son:16 Daughter:14 Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013 Wife moved out 2Jun13