I have been dark for about two weeks now. W just filed for Divorce a week ago and my emotions are pretty raw.

Situation: D14 plays in competitive soccer games on weekends. Before going dark, Wife and I typically attended all games together. Should I continue to go to all games and sit apart from her?

Should I talk with her if she approaches me at games? Should I allow her to sit with me? How should I act? Warm and sociable - or simply not available? Am I trying to make her feel isolated or what?

To use the actor's phrase, what is my motivation in this scene?


Me:52
Wife:49
Married 19 years
Son:16
Daughter:14
Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013
Wife moved out 2Jun13

W filed for D 22Sep13