I printed off that thread you mentioned and gave it to my friend who's H has recently moved out (he's definitely MLC). She's only had time to read the first paragraph but it's the first time I've seen her smile in a few weeks. Her dad is in the hospital so she's got the added stress of that, but she said she's going to take Midlife for Dummies with her tonight and read it while at the hospital.
My H has been thinking about Christmas - he informed me last night that he's already got his present for S13 (and possibly his birthday as well due to the price). At least I know what he's got so there won't be any worries about both of us getting him the same thing.
There's some really nice hotels in the south west, and the weather's usually pretty good, or at least it used to be. I think they've been getting more snow over there the last few years that we have over here. The whole of the area is really nice - I used to live just an hour bus ride from two different seaside towns - different bus routes of course - and each had their own type of beach (one had fine, white sand; the other a darker, more compact sand). That's one thing I really miss - no seaside towns anywhere near me now.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks