T, I am sorry for the things going on around you these days – seems rather rough from my POV.
Originally Posted By: T
It will be about 20% more than I was giving her. Looks like I need that remortgage even more now.
T, I recall you writing about your calculation on this some time ago. But this seems to come as a surprise to you. Is it? Won’t you save some money on gas and insurance as well?
F
Thanks F.
Yes I did calculate it wrong. I thought it was done after tax but it's before.
I won't save anything.
I was giving W the money I paid for her insurance anyway. Once I get sorted eventually it will be for the best, don't have to keep looking over my shoulder at what she might do next.
The CSA told me to stop giving W anything now they are involved. The first payment won't go out until the end of October. W might have a spewing fit when she has to go nearly a month without the money. Obviously not my problem now.
I am concerned how I will manage financially until the house gets sorted but in a way slightly relieved. I always felt like I was dancing around the possibility that W would go this route, it's done now.
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