Originally Posted By: Fartiltre
T,
I am sorry for the things going on around you these days – seems rather rough from my POV.

Originally Posted By: T
It will be about 20% more than I was giving her. Looks like I need that remortgage even more now.


T, I recall you writing about your calculation on this some time ago. But this seems to come as a surprise to you. Is it?
Won’t you save some money on gas and insurance as well?

F


Thanks F.

Yes I did calculate it wrong. I thought it was done after tax but it's before.

I won't save anything.

I was giving W the money I paid for her insurance anyway.
Once I get sorted eventually it will be for the best, don't have to keep looking over my shoulder at what she might do next.

The CSA told me to stop giving W anything now they are involved. The first payment won't go out until the end of October. W might have a spewing fit when she has to go nearly a month without the money. Obviously not my problem now.

I am concerned how I will manage financially until the house gets sorted but in a way slightly relieved. I always felt like I was dancing around the possibility that W would go this route, it's done now.


M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

The World is still My Oyster!