I realize she's cake eating and I do need to make my stand. Right now, I want to build myself up even stronger in her eyes as well as develop the confidence I'll need to survive once I confront her.
Very hard to do while living in the shadow of an A. The WAS will tend to give you an unending self-esteem beating.
AGREE. This is especially difficult for a betrayed husband to pull off. The emasculation of the sheer enormity and truth of it all can be a real killer.
