Thanks Accuray! This is really helpful information. I appreciate you sharing your experience.
Wow! Lots to think about and digest.
Mastah say less "digest," and more "do," Grasshoppah.
Do your noodling and your planning, but don't take more than a week or two. Then ACT, double-D. You'll be getting on with your life sooner, and you'll have the double-bonus that action is ATTRACTIVE to a woman.