I am not really scared of starting the process of D at this point.. to me it's just a piece of paper.. this thing called MLC doesn't follow any rules.. it does what it wants.. and on it's own time.... period..
Now that being said, I have a very good friend who's wife went thru MLC.. (they have two older boys) but it was bad..she had a peace bond on him....she had a younger OM.... they didn't speak a word for almost two years...divorced..... he moved on ..started dating and everything..
but now after 7 years they are getting back together.. they have been dating for a few months and plan on moving back in together as soon as her house sells. Point is you never know when or how things are going to end up.. a simple piece of paper is not going to keep you together.. the true deep love and friendship that was there before MLC is what will bring her back if it's meant to be.
M-39 W-41 T-9yrs BD-Dec 2012 “regardless of your choices and the fact that they may have caused me to experience painful emotions, I still love you because I recognize the purpose of our journey.”
