We own our own business and have a 9 yr old son, so we do have to keep some contact. I've read DB and DR and am trying to keep to the rules. My problem is this, he comes over telling me he loves me, no one will ever replace me, but he doesn't know if he's in love with OW or not.
If it were me, I'd calmly respond "Well then I guess we BOTH have some decisions to make."
And then I'd walk away, and not tip my hand as to where my head and heart are at the moment. And I'd DAMNED sure not go on a will-you-be-my-2nd-choice-bootie-call weekend with him!!