Another thing I wonder about is what happens the next day after a confrontation? What was your experience? Did one of you leave for the night? Do you wake up and give each other the silent treatment?
This is something I am not looking forward to as well.
Is this where you begin to go dark and just let her be, giving her all the space she needs? Seems like a very awkward and difficult period. Yes?
Yep -- it sukks, pure and simple. Other than after you expose and affair (which is NOT recommended by MWD), I can't think of anything more unpleasant.