Thanks Angela! I agree. I think this is good advice as well.

I realize I have to reach the point of being at peace with the end result, regardless.

I only found out about my wife's A in July 2013. So, I'm really processing alot of stuff right now.

Where are you in your sitch? Did you confront your H? How did that go and what was your approach? All the experience I can draw from, the better.

thanks

Vince B
M=10 yrs T=13 yrs
M45 / H 44
2 Boys 5 & 8
D Day: 7/16/13