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I am in no rush to move on... but I can tell it's coming.. it's changing inside of me... and even thou I don't like it.. I see no point in stopping it.

I think typically you wouldn't start with filing to solve issues - I regret jump starting that at the beginning of my journey. In my sitch, we're still M, but W is starting the process (I'm not fighting it). I think where you're at, it makes more sense at this point. As long as you're OK with either outcome (i.e., getting back together or getting D), I'd say the time might be right for the filing process to begin. Check out those pages for exact advice. MWD puts it better than I could.

Praying that all goes well for you either way!

ETC