I liked what was said about being a spouse only a fool would leave. That would be an excellent goal. Thankfully my wife told me what she wanted me to improve. It just feels like its too late. What she was mad about and what I think she was mad about are different. I thought is because we were looking for a house. She said she was suffering for 2 years due to my lack of emotion. Also, she had a list of my personal failings which was helpful for my 180's. But, like I said, she doesn't want back in. So, I'm working hard to do the right things in a short amount of time. As time goes on, I'm doing this stuff for me and less for her.