Wife said she was done! House sold, Moving forward

[Maritimer]

That is some good advise, I am volunteering for a Cancer fundraiser Enduro as a time keeper. Some fall fun in the woods! I will look into other organizations once I figure out more of a schedule.

Really thinking about reducing the frequency I see the children, when I see them in the evenings it is at the W place. She do not make me feel comfortable there. Its frustrating trying to keep a PMA with her cold, negative attitude towards me. Is it because I see her ever 2nd day? It makes co-parenting so much harder.

Its like going to a friends house that don't want you there. Except these are my children, and it was said from the get go that she would not restrict me from visiting with the boys. Which she hasent, but I cannot take them to my place as often as I would like. Her rules her way.

My schedule currently is seeing the boys at her place in the evenings, Tues, Thurs, Friday and recently letting me take them to my place on Sunday. Im thinking about changing it to Wed, Fri and my place Sundays.

I have a 6 month plan to purchase a house near her place, which is a 30 minute drive each way from my current apt.

I have a fear that they would not love me as much if I see less of them. Silly of me to think that. hhmmmm is that me being insecure?

Has any one else experienced the same situation I am in?