Strictly speaking I don't want a D. I want us all to live together as a happy family. I don't see that as an option. Especially now or anytime soon. I think you has a long journey ahead of you if you ever decides to take it. I need to get on with my life.
I like that one better, but stick with VETs
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That is the sort of thing I would like to say, I don't want to preach to her though, that's her stuff/issues:
"Strictly speaking I don't want a D. I wanted us all to live together as a happy family but that isn't an option. I need to get on with my life."
T, since you've made this decision, you've sounded stronger and more centered than I've ever witnessed.
What would you think about a simple Yes or No answer?
I were to say yes I automatically feel the need to justify it and put more words out there.
I know there really there is no point in waffling on about how I would have liked it to turn out. It is what it is whether I get chatty or not.
I think now I would be more tempted to ask her why she is even asking the question rather than answering it.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
