Strictly speaking I don't want a D. I want us all to live together as a happy family. I don't see that as an option. Especially now or anytime soon. I think you has a long journey ahead of you if you ever decides to take it. I need to get on with my life.
I like that one better, but stick with VETs
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That is the sort of thing I would like to say, I don't want to preach to her though, that's her stuff/issues:
"Strictly speaking I don't want a D. I wanted us all to live together as a happy family but that isn't an option. I need to get on with my life."
T, since you've made this decision, you've sounded stronger and more centered than I've ever witnessed.
What would you think about a simple Yes or No answer?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss