I have been thinking about LTH's question "Are you DONE?"
During this process one of the things I have learnt (learned?) is that absolutes one day are necessarily absolutes the next day and so on.
The day we got married, nothing would have changed my W's mind to get married. She changed her mind on BD and that was it, a few months later she changed it back, and then back again and then back again...you get the picture.
I do feel DONE now but I know that doesn't mean I will always feel that way so I find it's hard to say I'm DONE because DONE implies finished, never to be seen again and life doesn't work like that.
I have accepted that W and I could very well be D'd within 6 months and I am making peace with that.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
