One month into separation - WAS

[Tina825]

Found out a year ago my husband was having an EA with a woman that I knew. We were separated 2 months and started going to counseling and working on our marriage. After 6 months he moved back into the home. Things seemed to be going great and then a month ago I caught him on a second phone talking to her again. We got into an argument and he told me we were done and left.

We own our own business and have a 9 yr old son, so we do have to keep some contact. I've read DB and DR and am trying to keep to the rules. My problem is this, he comes over telling me he loves me, no one will ever replace me, but he doesn't know if he's in love with OW or not. He recently asked me to go on a 4 day trip and I don't know what to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.