better to love or be loved?

[kat727]

I think most of us here took a while to get over the disbelief that this was indeed happening. The marriages that I know of that have been saved are the ones where the left behind spouse truly moved on. Some were quite literally ready to move away and the walk away took notice.

By focusing on you, you will get to a better place where you will find some joy. You will be living for you and your kids. You may not save your marriage and that will be ok because in the grand scheme you will have saved yourself and your kids.

kat