hey GTO, and Kate's place. thank you for your comments. I think I am on a similar timeline as you guys. GTO, my kids are in our family home. d15(handicapped)will stay overnight at h's apt-boys never have.I have drafted a letter to h to talk about more time...the typical one week night and every other wkend. We have not discussed it yet. H sees the kids whenever he wants. I always allow and am amicable to it. The kids would prefer to stay here. I am sitting on it. H does whatever he wants and I do all the kid stuff. I've always done the kid stuff and I love it. almost it will be hard for me to relinquish( this is not a control thing...I see this as part of my job-Ive been doing this 20 years!)
re the cute guy, just my case. this time last year when all this was happening...I flirted around. My self esteem had taken such a hit. I wanted/needed to feel like I was still desirable. I know I am. I know I will be a catch. But for me, I wanted Someone to flirt back with me. To let me know.
one last thing...the ring. I've not taken mine off yet. Afraid to
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13
