I didn’t comment on the statements from D6 but tried to look at the big picture, kept my tone soft and voice calm, but it hurt me! D6 is hurting and I feel it, and at the same time W just seems so cold and calm, but still pleasant and nice. She seems so totally gone and she is!
I know it hurts, my S almost always wants dad and always has (even when he was a little and most would want mom); however, if I look at it objectively I understand and I am grateful he has such a great R with his dad. D6 is young and hurting, it is natural for her to want mommy to help with the hurt and make it better.
Maybe W feels that way about you 'calm, but still pleasant and nice'. You do not know that she is totally gone, the ending is not determined.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
