I am sorry to be such a mess.

How can he blame me for everything in his life when I have been loyal, faithful, and supportive?

He is saying such things that hurt me and I shouldn't believe it? I texted him last night after our conversation and he didn't respond.

We was speaking with OW until late last night as I found out from the wife of the best friend he is staying with.

I guess I just give him a reason to be with OW.

I was working on me all week and then this! I really want to save my marriage, but it is pointless. In VA he can move forward without me.

He will turn off of all the utilities since they are in his name. (because he is done with me).

I have to fend for myself even when I have taken care of his needs all of the time. I guess he has the OW for that.

I don't want to help with his D, but he is attacking me financially. I will never be able to prevent this D.

OLD THREAD:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2380569#Post2380569

Me: 44
Him: 51
Married: 9 years
Together: 14 years