please keep us posted anyhow. There are a lot of reasons for me asking. Also I think the whole dating thing, is helpful.
For the most part when I dated during the sep, I learned two important things (and a ton of hilarious not so important things)...
One, I learned that there are good men out there, who could love and be loved. There are also a lot of wounded men, some bitter, some not. (The bitter ones are not very enticing, fyi. I was surprised at how angry some of them seem to be at women in general, and how they shared that with me. ).
Two, I learned that my choice of h was a pretty good one b/c we are well suited for each other, usually. He's smarter than most of the men I met, and is not threatened by being around a partner as educated as he is.
Mostly, It's good news all around really.
SO how does it relate to YOU?
Crimson, I think when you have been OR become a good catch, (And you are now, whether you were before) it shows.
So when your w begins really dating, imo, you'll be more missed than not.
She'll be comparing them to you...and few, if any, will outscore you.
When you really begin to date, opening to the possibility of letting someone into your heart, you will love again. You will be loved again. Probably by a healthier woman, b/c most LBSers who do their work,
Crimson, take your eye off of her for the near future, maybe forever. Life is short.
As I approach another class reunion and see fewer of my friends each time, I am again reminded that Life is so very short.
You are a man who is meant to be loved.
Keep your eye on your own heart, mending it so it can open to another, and your beautiful son.
The more you focus on your ex w, the longer it will take to build your new life.
Again, please keep us posted...we care.
You are an example to many people here. I think you'll continue to be.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
