See? I don't get it either.....but maybe we have lost something in the translation?
And he does sound cranky lmao. If I was to get that email it would put me me in a scr*w you kind of attitude. But then again, I am not a WAS, so I have no idea.
I am not sure how to phrase that letter......perhaps, "Thanks for wanting to keep me involved with Ds when they are with you, I appreciate it. However, I am not comfortable with you placing appointments on my calendar and would prefer if you could just send me an email. Also, I am not comfortable with you being on my server, so let me know when you change it over, so I don't delete the account prematurely"
I mean, I would still be p*ssed but if deleting her from the account is something you feel is necessary for you and is not directed at making your W's life uncomfortable and a "so there" attitude, then you have to do it.
