Hi Kate, I just read your 1st post. What your H said is just exactly the same words what my H said. We're also 19T and 17M. The difference between us is that my H still live in with us. How is everything going on your side? Did you try 180, GAL...? I tried, but I feel so hard sometimes if I was just distanced from him :-(
M 18 yrs 5 & 7 yrs old kids H DB in 4/2013 H moved out in 11/2013