She told me that God was giving her direction that divorce was the right move, I did not infer that.
The outside forces are that we moved in with her parents when we got here. She has a very close relationship with her mother. Her mother and I butted heads, her mother stepped in to fill my spot, and monopolizing her time. It got to the point where she would come home and tell her mom about her day instead of me. These was no privacy. This went on for about 4 months, I had never had issues with her parents before this. I stopped trying to compete for time and withdrew, they saw this as me not fulfilling their daughters needs and re-doubled their efforts. This even pushed me further away from her.
We really didn't have any issues leading up to the sexting issues, never really argued. We have been together a little over 4 years now.
I'll try to stop mindreading, I'm not good at it. It's hard because I have no idea what she's thinking because I'm not contacting her. Day 6 still no word.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14