Ok... I got a reply Wish I could say that it was more favorable.... But the ex is taking the stance that my relationship with the kids is seen as a disruption and that it would be best for everyone to cut all ties. I asked for a little understanding as to the breakdown in communication and clarity of the ground rules.... But was denied any further review at this time. She also feels that it would be inappropriate of her to meet in person with me over coffee to discuss things because she doesn't want her BF getting upset with her. Mmmmmmm.... Can't wait for the comments to come in on this one.
Ps...I will say this...I will respect her wishes about her boundaries on the children. She is their mother and its her call..... But... I'm still going to continue to DB :-)
M 52 W 40 D 15 (step) S 12 (step) Married 7, together almost 8 Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..." BD final 8/22/12