I am not sure I understand this question? The GS was arranged before she moved out but after BD. Few weeks ago she signed up D4 for gym but afterwards D4 told that she didnt like it and stopped. Gym was on wednesdays and thereby every second time in "my" time and she W didnt ask. Is this what you mean?
After I reread what you wrote, I don't think I understand my question, either. No problem, just pretend I didn't ask it.
Yes, I remember how she signed the girls up for all that and then expected you to take them on your time. Very controlling of her, I must say. Your answer (this time) will be nice and accusing (even though her wanting to put appointments of your calendar is controlling behavior). If she doesn't get the message loud and clear....then you can always say it a little stronger the next time around.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
No problem, just pretend I didn't ask it.