AS sorry it didn't work with you and your H. Were you in a better position to move on when she told you she was happier out of the marriage or did you still get upset about it? My H doesn't tell me anything!
With apologies to 2 for the brief detour , by the time I had that conversation with her I had already accepted that our chances of reconciliation were extremely small. So when she said it, it really had no impact on me. It was water under the bridge by then. And even though it's been over a year since BD, that doesn't mean I can start believing anything she says. She may very well still be in the fog and even that statement may be her emotions talking. That may be how she felt that day, or week, or month. That doesn't mean she'll feel that way forever. Feelings can and do change. All I can do is keep the way home paved and smooth (to borrow 25's saying) while I continue living my life
, by the time I had that conversation with her I had already accepted that our chances of reconciliation were extremely small. So when she said it, it really had no impact on me. It was water under the bridge by then. And even though it's been over a year since BD, that doesn't mean I can start believing anything she says. She may very well still be in the fog and even that statement may be her emotions talking. That may be how she felt that day, or week, or month. That doesn't mean she'll feel that way forever. Feelings can and do change. All I can do is keep the way home paved and smooth (to borrow 25's saying) while I continue living my life 
