NEW LIFE / NEW ME - TAKING OFF!

[Fartiltre]

Received an email from W this morning

Hey you
I hope you are recovering well :-)

Will it be all right if I put the Ds appointment’s in your calendar? – also when they stay with me?

I think it will be nice for you to know what they are doing/have done when they are here.

Have a nice day
Autosignature at bottom
(She also put two appointments in my calendar.)

According to my last posts from yesterday I am thinking about an answer something like the below, but I am afraid to pi$$ her to much off! I need the Christmas and money issue solved now but the rest can wait and if I wait a month it will make no difference to me. So I am wondering if I should just get it all done at once or only address the urgent matters.
Thoughts, comments, advice???

Hey

Thanks for mail! I am better and next week the stiches goes out :-)

I don’t think you should put appointments in my calendar when the girls are at my place so please drop me a mail instead. I will be great if you send the appointments to me but do not expect me to accept them. I don’t want my calendar filled with appointments that I am not attending. I would very much like to see them so the thoungt is super – I want to know what happens in Ds life.

Also please avoid signing up the girls for regular stuff like gym or scout when they are at my place – without us talking about it first. I don’t think we should disappoint them unnecessary and if stuff can’t be done there is no need for them to know anything about it. I do hope you agree.

And then a few practicals – we can also take these on phone but here they are:
I need for you to move your exchange account to another place in near future, so I can shut it down in here. Please let me know when you are done moving it.

X has billed us and it should be paid now. Will you transfer half or should I just deduct the amount from childcare?

There are several items out here that belongs to you and as I go through the place more will come. I will bring a little every time I drop of the bags and just put it in the shed. All your stuff, including the things in the barn, will have to be gone before spring so please prepare for that.

You have some of my items that I would like back. Please look into this.

Finally a little about Christmas and New Year. We haven’t agreed on this and it is properly best done on the phone but here’s some thought’s that we can talk about next time we talk. I would like this planned rather quickly.

I would like for the girls to be here when S10 is. That means that I hope they can be here for Christmas and at your place for New Year. Next year we switch. It is my opinion that girls shouldn’t switch place on Christmas day (dec. 24) and first Christmas day (dec. 25) like we have discussed it around S10 and I think the experiences from S10 should also count for the girls.
The girls are at my place from the 18. December, but if you would like to see them a day or two before Christmas that’s totally understandable and we can work something out around the 22. and/or 23. December.

Then we can switch back on second Christmas day. (her birthday) That will give you a birthday morning every second year and a birthday evening every second year – I hope that’s all right.
If you get the Ds second Christmas day, then according to schedule, they will come home on the 1. January. If you have any plans we can talk about this and if you would like for the Ds to be with me on New Year just let me know.

That’s my thoughts
Talk to you soon

F